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12 WARNING SIGNS A GUY MIGHT BE ABUSIVE

I've got many ladies asking me.."How can I tell that a guy might abuse me"?


There are many warning signs. Even though these signs are subtle, The challenge isn't  in identifying them. It is in accepting the reality that the said person might turn out that way because at that point, the girl might have become carried away by his laudable praise at her.


Often times relationships start out with the guy giving a girl some "hot chase"...The calls, texts, favours and what have you. What we often don't know is the fact that potential abusers don't really pretend. They simply UPLAY the parts of them that gets you to fall for them while you make excuses for their abusive warning signs.


Here are a few to look out for
1. He makes Indirect Statements
He never comes straight to say, he wants something. He suggests it, and plays out the benefits and then leaves you to decide.
For example, He might say, "
 it would be nice if you spent the night at my place…

6 LOOSE MOUTH TYPES THAT COULD RUIN YOUR FUTURE $ RELATIONSHIPS

“Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.” Proverbs 21:23(NIV)



 Ever heard of the saying,'' loose mouth sinks ship?''
 I learnt it is a military term used to remind the navy that enemies could be around the ship and letting out vital information can give the enemy an upper hand against them.

According to Richard, enemy spies used to hang around the British pubs to hear loose talk about ship movements during World War 1. While Sailors talked about their next assignments, where they were going, when they were leaving, and what they planned on doing, the enemy got vital information with which they effectively launched an attack.

Have you ever wished you didn‘t let out information about you or about someone else?  I have felt so. I know what it is to have that inner nudge telling you that you have spoken more than necessary.

 A loose mouth is a natural tendency for outgoing people and those who are naturally open to others. However, l…